Thursday, May 16, 2013

New Beginnings

OK so for my very few readers..... I know it's been more or less forever since I have posted here. Sorry about that.  It's been a rough nine months in our household so I've been radio silent but... the good news is that I'm back :)  Here is a brief overview of what we have been up to in the past several months. I know in my last post a talked about a few things here but I decided to briefly revisit them.

In June, Hubby made it home on our 2nd wedding anniversary :)  I couldn't have asked for a better gift.  It was great and I was so happy to have him home.

July and August were full of uncertainty for us.  Hubby ETSed from active duty at the end of August and prior to that we needed to figure out where we would go and we were hoping that Hubby would be able to get another job outside of the military.  Since we were living on post, we had to be out of our home on the day that Hubby's contract ended and the housing office was not at all flexible or willing to work with us on this.  Four weeks prior to this date we needed to schedule our move (since the military was paying) but we had no idea at that time where we were going yet so this was -let me put this lightly- super stressful.  We were also not guaranteed that we would get the moving date that we had requested so we were worried that our things would not be picked up before we needed to be out of our home.  I turned into a giant ball of stress and Hubby was applying to jobs daily but not hearing back from any of them.  Couple this with the fact that most of the jobs that Hubby was looking at were jobs that relied heavily on shift work - meaning that he would be working a lot of nights and weekends - and I was not feeling very positive about the future. On top of all of this we were also trying to readjust to being together again which while we loved being together was still an adjustment since we had both been used to being able to do whatever we wanted on our own schedules.

Eventually with no job plans for either of us in sight other than my daily sub work which does not pay much, we made the decision to have our things put into storage for a while and move in with my parents until Hubby was able to find a job.  This decision was not made lightly but we felt as though it would give us the most flexibility since it would allow Hubby to still look for jobs in any state.  Luckily the army was willing to store our things for up to six months and my parents were willing to host us for awhile.

Two days before we had to be out of our house the movers came to pack up our stuff.  This was not a fun experience   They packers were horrible.  They didn't want to label anything in the ways that the army told us to ask for (for example they would not label our crystal as such - only as glass) and when they left... I found a used tampon left by one of the female packers on my bathroom sink.  Can you saw eww?  I mean really... was that necessary?  I had trash bags available.

We lived with my parents for September and October and while it was hard not to have our own home and to have to live by their rules we knew we were lucky and tried to make the best of it.  I enjoyed being able to spend time with my parents and Hubby was able to play some golf with my Dad and see some of his family who live nearby.  I began subbing for the local schools there and time passed.

In November luck smiled on us and Hubby was offered a job!  The downside is that we only had about a week to get everything together and move from Texas to Massachusetts.  It was a rat race to say the least but we managed.  It was a long car ride but kept ourselves entertained by making fun of the names of towns that we passed and when I wasn't the one driving I worked on a cross stitch project (pics to be posted later).  Unfortunately, on day two when we were driving through Tennessee a trucker hit a huge rock and it flew out from under the truck and hit our windshield... right in front of my face... shattering our windshield.  I had glass all over my lap and since I had been working on my cross stitch project and not paying attention to the road you could say I was a little surprised.  More than a few expletives were exclaimed by both of us.  We had to drive about half an hour to a place that could replace our windshield...the whole way the windshield further cracking.  It was a very nerve wracking 30 minutes.  When we pulled into the Safelite place the guy comes out and was like wow your windshield is broken.  Hubby and I just looked at each other... I wanted to say "really? we hadn't noticed!" or "Here's your sign" but managed to hold my tongue.  Our car was literally jam packed with our stuff so we hauled half of it (including Bubbles in his little plastic cup) into the waiting room so that they could fix the windshield.  Lucky for us they were able to fix it the same day and we were on our way again.  We stopped for a couple of days in Virginia to visit with Hubby's family and then we made the last leg up to MA.

I never thought I would find myself back in this state.  When I left it to move to Texas and marry my husband I was not in a hurry to go back.  I really didn't want to leave Texas but at least I am still certified to teach here.  We stayed with my grandmother for a couple of weeks while we looked for a place to live.  When we finally found a place we began the nightmare of trying to get our stuff out of storage with the army.  Needless to say I had been living out of a suitcase for about 3 months and it was way past old.  It took forever for us to get our stuff "released" because we were given misinformation about how to get this done twice... it's the army... are you surprised?  We basically slept on an air mattress for a month and luckily my sister loaned us some dishes and a few other essentials from her college dorm so that we wouldn't have to eat out quite so much.  It was a long month.

December: When our things finally were delivered right before Christmas, we were dismayed by the condition of our things.  We are pretty sure that a number of items were used while they were in storage.  For example, our washer was dripping water when they brought it into our new place when we had drained it completely a week before it had been put into storage in August.  Not to mention, it had powder detergent residue in the soap dispenser and I have never used powder detergent.  They also managed to lose a few items and left our patio chairs in a storage unit in either North or South Carolina by accident.  I was not too happy.  They barely got our mattress up the stairs and when they went to unbox it they not only slashed it with their knife but manged to cut themselves and bleed all over it.  So not impressed.  I could go on but I don't want to get stressed out about it.  As of today... our claim... to be reimbursed for damages.... is still under review.. ugh. Moving sucks.

January and February were spent unpacking the house and getting things back the way I wanted them.  It was a big job.  We tired to have a birthday party for Hubby and invited about 20 people but no one showed up :-/  We went out to dinner and a movie instead.  So much for trying to meet his co-workers spouses!

In March, I  started subbing again at the school that I used to work at before I left this state 4 years prior.  In some respects this was a little strange. Some things had changed but some were the same as if I had never left.  A few students who I had had right before I moved as freshman (now seniors) still remembered me and to my surprise still remembered some of the lessons I had designed for them.  It was kind of neat to see that I had actually made an impact on at least a few students.  

Since March, I have pretty much been busy with subbing and trying to get our claim settled.  It's been a long ride but things finally seem to be falling in place.  I miss Texas and my friends there but I am slowly readjusting.

Monday, October 22, 2012

In Transition

OK, so it's been forever since I have been on here and I know that my blog has been totally neglected.  In my defense, the last few months have been pretty crazy.  Hubby came home from Korea at then end of June just in time for our anniversary.  I was very excited to have him home again but then things started to get very busy.  We spent the 4th of July visiting my family and then the rest of July and August were spent frantically trying to figure out what we would do come the end of August when Hubby ETSed from the active duty army.

We were hoping that that Hubby would be offered a job outside of the military before the end of August but this was not to be so, we went for plan B - move in with my parents for a few months while Hubby continues the job search.  We had to be out of our house on post on Hubby's exact ETS date and housing was less than flexible in helping us coordinate the move so it was a bit of a frantic month trying to make all of the arrangements.

Two days before Hubby's ETS, the Jonas Brothers came to pack up our house and prepare all of our things for storage.  No, I am not kidding, that was the name of the moving company.  The Irony was not lost on me and May agreed that it was a bit humorous.  Thank God for little moments like that or I might have lost my mind.  On a side note in case you were wondering, the army provides us 6 months of storage while we are "in transition."  We continue to pray that Hubby finds a job before then.  So anyway.... it took two days for the movers to pack up and then empty our house.  It was quite the experience since half of the information that we had been told prior to moving day turned out to be wrong. For example. the moving company had told us that we needed to purchase our own washer bolts which we frantically ordered online with rush delivery to get them in time only to discover that the army had paid the moving company to provide them for us.  AWESOME... NOT.  This was just one of a laundry list of things that we were misinformed about.  The movers made a complete mess of the house and one of the female packers even left used feminine products on my bathroom sink... yeah thanks for that.  Can you say gross?  I mean yeah I understand that she needed to use the bathroom but she could have picked up after herself.  Whatever happened to common courtesy?

Needless to say we survived and after the truck left we packed all of the remaining items into our already pretty loaded down car.  Choosing what to take with us for an indefinite amount of time and what to send to storage was not an easy task and we could only hope that we had chosen well.  After living out of our suitcases for the last couple months I can say that we did OK but its hard not being able to have all of our things.  After packing up the car we spent the night scrubbing the house down from the movers mess.  I had cleaned the whole house prior to their arrival but after they left you could barely tell.  Thank goodness for May who let me borrow her vacuum.

So that pretty much brings us up to the present.  We have been living at my parents while Hubby job searches and I have been working as a substitute again.  Hubby has become a "weekend warrior" with the reserves so he won't be completely done with the army for another few years.  We are crossing our fingers and praying that a job comes along for him soon but we are trying very hard to be patient.... not always an easy feat.  I am taking things week by week and at times day by day.  I will try to update here more often but no promises.  I miss all of you (friends who are reading this) so drop me a line and let me know how you are!

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Quilting and Cross Stitch

I can't remember if I mentioned this in a previous post but after I finished making my aprons back in September, I began a quilting project.  I wanted to do something with Hubby's old uniforms that he had wanted to throw way because they were worn out or too stained to wear anymore.  I stopped him from taking them to the trash and he was more than glad to give them to me for "craft purposes" lol.  After surfing the net I found a couple of cool ideas including quilts and purses.  I made the purse first awhile back and posted a photo here on my blog.  The quilt has taken me a lot longer to complete partly because I often get frustrated with projects that are not "instant gratification."  I got bored or frustrated and put it aside for months at a time.  However, I finally have it finished!  I know it isn't perfect but in some ways I think that just adds character to it and this IS my very first quilt so cut me some slack?  I think this will be a cool keepsake since the uniforms that I used to make it were the ones that Hubby wore while he was in Iraq.  I think it turned out pretty cool.  The photo isn't the best... sorry!



Awhile back, I also completed and then framed a cross stitch project but I never posted it here so I thought I would now.  I hadn't done cross stitch since middle school when I had done one project but this turned out great!  I think the framing really compliments it too.  Sorry for the glare from the glass on the photo...

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Korean Adventure Part 11: Heading Home - The Final Chapter

All too soon it was time for me to head back home to the States.  The morning I left Hubby helped me repack my suitcase and I went with him to get his hair cut before it was time to head to the airport. 

It took a taxi and a bus ride to get to the airport but we made it with time to spare.  The airport had a touch screen map/FAQ kiosk just like the mall.  I thought it was pretty cool.  The airport there is huge!  We had to use the map just to figure out where to check in.  After checking in, Hubby took me to lunch at the airport Bennigan's.  I thought it would be a safe place to go since they have Bennigan's in the US but the menu was in Korean so we had to ask the waitress lots of questions about what everything was and she only spoke a little English so it was a challenge.  Hubby told me that he will be a lot more patient with people who don't speak English when he gets back to the US because he knows what it is like not to speak the language.

Saying goodbye was difficult but Hubby assured me that the next few months would go by quickly.  A baby cried the entire way from Korea to San Francisco.  It was a long flight but ironically it was actually two hours shorter than the flight going to Korea because of the way the wind blows. 

I finally arrived back in San Francisco but was thankful that I had a long layover because I got stuck in the customs line for over an hour... even though I was towards the very front of the line.  The system went down and the line was at a standstill for over 45 minutes.  Couple that with tired and slightly annoyed passengers and you can imagine what standing in line was like. 

Thanks to San Fran's poor signage, as I mentioned on the way there, I got a bit lost trying to figure out how to get to my connecting gate but eventually I found it and picked up some food while I was waiting to board.  My flight was overbooked and I could have gotten a free travel voucher to give up my seat but at that point I just wanted to get home.

May was kind enough to pick me up when I finally arrived back home and she had already dropped off Bubbles, my fish, at my house.  She is so thoughtful!  I was glad to be back home but ironically just hours after I got back two tornadoes ripped through the town that I live in.  Thank God they didn't get close enough to post to affect me but still.. nice welcome home gift from mother nature.  LOL  it figures.  At least it happened AFTER I got home and not while I was trying to fly here.

I miss Hubby but hopefully he will be on his way home before I know it and then he will be getting out of the army so we will not have to deal with a year long separation again.  I can't wait to see him again.  Thanks for showing me Korea Baby!  I had fun  and I hope you did too :)

Korean Adventure Part 10: Other Activities and Attending the Movies in Korea.

Other than the major events that I have already discussed in various posts, Hubby gave me a tour of his base and we watched a bunch of movies that we borrowed from the post library.  I got to see him participate in his bowling league twice while I was there and it was fun to meet his friends.

I also learned that there are members of the Korean army who work with the US soldiers and wear our uniforms.  Hubby told me that they act as liaisons of sorts and are called Katuses.  I thought it sounded like it was pronounced Patuses but when I googled for spelling I found it with a 'K' on wikipedia.  They wear the US uniforms but with the Korean flag and have their name tapes in Korean with the American translation underneath in subtext.  I thought this was interesting.  Military service is mandatory for all males in Korea.

Attending the Movies

We also attended a movie off post one day which was an interesting experience.  In Korea, going to a movie is slightly different than it is here.  The movie theater itself was on the 14th and 15th floor of a building and the Koreans do not stand in line for tickets.  Rather, you take a number and have a seat on benches until your number is called.  When it is your turn, you go up to the counter to get your tickets. 

The cashiers do not speak English very well so if you are American you ask to see the "book."  Hubby loves movies so he is a pro at the whole "movie theater procedure!"  They hand you a binder which basically has movie posters in it shrunk down to 8 1/2in by 11in to fit into the binder.  You flip through it to pick out your movie and then point to it when you decide.  We decided to see John Carter.  They offered quite a few American movies and they are shown in English but they have Korean subtitles. 

After choosing the movie you want to see the cashier asks you where you would like to sit and shows you on the computer where the open seats are.  You actually have to sit in the seat you choose, like going to a concert.  The seats are all the same price but I guess this prevents people from having to rush into the theater before the movie starts to find a good seat? 

The theater offers popcorn in butter and caramel flavors as well as ice cream, and a variety of other snacks.  There is also an arcade inside the theater and there were even a few stores!  The actual theaters were on the second floor of the theater (15th? floor of the building?) 

After the movie you have to be very careful about where you throw your trash.  The Koreans are very anal about recycling and will yell at you if you don't do it right!  I also want to mention that although Korea is in general a very clean country... there are very few public garbage cans.  You will not see them on the streets.  I have no idea what they do with it!

Korean Adventure Part 9: Gyeongbokgung Palace

Towards the end of my visit to Korea, Hubby took me to visit Gyeongbokgung palace in downtown Seoul. We arrived just in time to see the ceremony marking the changing of the royal guards.  The guards were dressed in bright colors and carried weapons such as spears and bow and arrows.  It was a very interesting ceremony to watch.  They carried brightly colored flags and the royal orchestra played its very unique instruments as they marched along with the guards. 

After the change of the guard, Hubby and I went through the gates of the palace and discovered that there would be a free English speaking tour in five minutes.  I picked up a brochure on the palace and began reading it while we waited.  It was strange to see the tall buildings of the city looming right outside of the palace walls.  Looking the other direction it was cool to see how the palace roof was built to follow the line of the mountain behind it.  The early Koreans believed that their architecture should flow with nature.



It was a freezing cold day and it was very windy so I think our tour guide cut the tour slightly short but it was still informative.  We learned many interesting facts about the palace, Korea's history, and the kings who had lived/ruled there. 

The palace itself was very colorful and elaborate.  There were figures that I would call gargoyles everywhere to ward off evil spirits and there were small figures on the eves of every roof top.  There were dragons painted onto the ceilings and pottery on display inside the rooms.





The palace had an elaborate chimney system to heat it and seemed very architecturally advanced for the time period.  We also were able to see a rounded sundial that was invented under the rule of King Sejong.  It is supposedly much more accurate than a flat sundial.  Our tour guide read the time for us and it turned out to be about 20 minutes different from the time according to our watches.  She told us that the sundial is actually more accurate for the actual time in Korea according to the sun but that Korea conformed to the western time zones and that is where the 20 minutes were lost.  King Sejong also invented a water clock so that he could tell time on cloudy days or when it was raining.  We didn't get to see it but it seems like he was pretty smart!



The back part of the palace grounds has a beautiful garden but since we were there in the winter everything was brown.  Hubby was able to go when the weather was nicer and things were still green.  It was still pretty though even in winter.  It must be very beautiful in summer.  Over the back wall you can see a blue roofed building.  We were told that it is the Blue House where the Korean president lives.



After walking around for a bit after our tour and having a quick lunch we went to the museum next door to the palace and walked around learning about Korean culture.  It was interesting and it gave us a chance to warm up!

Afterwards we visited a small courtyard outside of the museum that had statues representing the Korean new year.  I was born in the year of the tiger.  I was excited to find this out because I love tigers.  My mom was born in the year of the dog which I find hilarious because she hates dogs!  Hubby was born in the year of the ox.  When were you born?

When we finished looking at everything, Hubby took me a few blocks away to a market area where we shopped for souvenirs.  There was so much to look at and there were a lot of interesting things for sale although some seemed over priced.  We walked around and had a good time exploring the shops until we found a couple of things to buy and headed back to the train for the trip back to Hubby's post.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Korean Adventure Part 8: Celebrating Saint Patrick's Day

Koreans don't celebrate St. Patrick's Day but soldiers do!  Hubby and his buddies wanted to go out to celebrate on St. Patrick's Day.  We started off the celebration by going out for dinner.  We left the post around 4:45 and took a taxi to downtown Uijeongbu.  Once downtown we walked to a Korean pizza place called Mr. Pizza.  Yeah, I know, really original name.  It was around the corner from Mr. Doughnut.

One pizza is about $30 in Korea which is crazy but again I think all American food is higher priced.  They had a bunch of specialty pizzas but Hubby had to explain to the waitress that I only like cheese on my pizza and nothing else.  I know, I am boring.  Hubby's buddies ordered a pizza with a bunch of different toppings but were surprised to find corn on the pizza when it was delivered.  Who knew corn could be put on pizza?  Hubby said he thought the pizza was made with goat cheese but I couldn't tell and I am very picky.  Two interesting things to note about eating out in Korea are 1) you don't tip the waitress and 2) she won't come over every five minutes to see if you need anything.  Instead, there is a button on the table that you press when you want service.

After dinner we walked around downtown Uijeongbu a bit.  They have all sorts of statues and art in the plazas and all of the store fronts were colorful and lit up with neon signs.  There was so much to look at I was a bit overwhelmed.  I didn't know where to look first!  I almost tripped over an uneven sidewalk because I was trying to look at everything and wasn't watching where I was walking. 

We went to a flea market area and looked around for awhile.  There were vendors selling everything from shoes to food and everything in between. One of Hubby's buddies wasn't wearing green and we kept giving him grief so he decided to buy a green Yankees hat.  He didn't realize until after he had paid for it that the back said "New Yuck" in stead of New York.  Ha ha... the Yankees suck anyway.

The boys wanted to start drinking but most of the bars were still closed.  Eventually they found one and we trekked up to the second floor where it was.  In Korea, they cannot build out so they build up instead.  Each floor of a building can be a different store, restaurant, etc.  We sat at a table by the window and people watched as people walked by below. 

Hubby pointed out a barbershop that we could see from the window that had two barber poles out front.  Apparently in Korea, two barber poles means that they offer haircuts with a happy ending.  Who knew?  Hubby said that they were told this info when they were in processed so that they would not get themselves in trouble. 

Eventually we ended up at a bar called Radio Clock where we spent the remainder of the evening.  The Korean bar tenders were very friendly and the soldier's explained to them that it was St. Patrick's Day.  They took song requests all night and would look up any song that you asked for.  I heard a Korean version of a Rhianna song and a J Lo song which was interesting.  Hubby played darts and we had a good time until we decided it was time to head home.